When Beginning - You must take a Mental Step

Changing direction is not really about going North, South, East or West. Changing direction is about understanding yourself well enough that you can now make a new choice.  For example:

I've hesitated for years on having a steady relationship.  I've tried a few times, and then stopped, tried again and then stopped.  Eventually, I found that the men themselves were stopping as much as I was.

When I examined the interaction and exchange of stopping, I realized its because my life is in limbo.  As a Gypsy, your life is the flow of life, nature and the seasons.  As a Citizen, your life is the flow of traffic, and belongings and the burdens that come with belongings (bills, banks and taxes).

When a person in either group lives in limbo, the are simply not moving and it is hard to have a relationship with anyone in that limbo state.  And this meditative, incubative Limbo state is not a bad state, nor a good state.  It is simply a necessary state so that the person can mature and be ready for entering the flow again.

Changing becomes an Elegant choice of what Path to take....

A beautiful concentration of focus....